We
were blessed to be able to award a very special Quilt of Valor Friday, Nov 29th
to the husband of one of own CT Quilters.
Ginger has been a driving force behind our QOV group and we consider her
husband Roger an auxiliary member because he supports and encourages her QOV
activities. Word is that he has given up
his dining room table on occasion when Ginger is laying out a quilt top!
Roger
is a Vietnam
veteran, having served in-country on the Cambodia/Laos border, sometimes with a
flame thrower and sometimes assisting with spraying Agent Orange, both extremely
dangerous duties. While Agent Orange was
thought to be a good thing for deforestation at the time, we now know what
ravages it can cause. Roger is now being
treated by the wonderful medical personnel at the Bay Pines VA Hospital. These are the caring people that understand and
respect the service of our Veterans.
Roger was in good spirits and was very honored to receive a Quilt of
Valor from the group that his wife supports.
Roger
is originally from Ohio
and served his time in boot camp at Ft Benning, GA. After his 1967-1968 tour in Vietnam, he was at Ft McClellan, AL assisting with
training for the 101st Airborne.
He had a lot of stories that held us spellbound, including his visits to
the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington,
DC, sometimes called “The Wall
That Heals”.
He
and Ginger recall the reverence with which visitors approach the wall seeking
names of friends and relatives, often leaving small memorials and taking
etchings of names. This highly polished black
granite structure designed by Maya Lin, is unbelievably long with individual
names of those 58,000 who died in the conflict.
The two ends of the Wall point to the Washington Monument
and the Lincoln Memorial. Many come
together to mourn there, but they come also to honor those who survived.
Roger
also told us a wonderful story about a fairly recent visit that he and Ginger
had taken to the Mt Rushmore National Memorial in the Black Hills region of South Dakota. He spoke of the glorious evening lighting
ceremony put on by the National Park Service and how they invited all veterans
in the crowd to come to the front and be recognized and publicly thanked. How inspiring for us all!
Roger
also told us about his Vietnam Honor Beads that are a prized possession and
when you hear this story, you’ll know why.
These
items are a tangible ritual developed by Vietnam veterans to honor each
other. These beads are in the colors of
the Vietnam Service Ribbon (yellow, green and red). Every step in the design and construction of
these beads is performed only by Vietnam War vets and only a Vietnam War veteran
can award them to another. These are the
men and women who served with honor when called and stood by each other in a
time of great turmoil. Many Vietnam
vets say it is the only time they have been thanked for their service. It is not too late to welcome a Vietnam War
veteran home.
One
last note from Ginger that I received today:
“Your
visit and the presentation of a QOV meant a great deal to us. Roger and I talked about his day this
evening. He felt honored to have a
QOV. He had tears in his eyes when we
were talking. He has told everyone about
the experience. [Roger said] …’The QOV
ladies are a very special group. Thank
you for your work for the Veterans’.
[Ginger]
…And I also want to thank you for your visit and the quilt. He has it over him now.”
Roger,
we so very much appreciate your service to the Nation. We have a great deal of respect and honor for
you and your fellow veterans. Thank you
so much for allowing us to visit and present you with a healing and comforting
Quilt of Valor.